I REALLY CANT FAULT THEM AT ALL, I TRULY DO THINK FUNERALS HAVE BEEN SO NORAMALIZED, IN SUCH A WAY THAT DOING ANYTHING OTHER WITH YOUR LOVED ONE WOULD BE DEEMED AS WRONG, MANY MAY COMMENT AND SAY IT IS WRONG, BUT FOR ME, I SAY HATS OFF TO THE FAMILY AND FRINEDS, THATS RESPECT. YOU SHOULD BEABLE TO DO WHAT YOU WISH FOR A FIANL FAREWELL FUNERAL.